Posted by Toni on 9th February and posted in Play, sharing
Certainly, teaching little cares to share is one of the most difficult tasks. Children who are only two or three should not be expected to share well, and they have to be taught to do so. This is certainly not an innate undertaking.
There are a few things that you should know about how children this young interact with their toys. First of all, they have pride in their ownership which is very important. They will decide on a favorite item or two and will grow attached to it. This is good for their sense of self esteem and you can teach them how to take care of their possessions and take pride in what they have.
You need to respect their choices and their possessions. This ownership helps your children to know that they have control over certain aspects of their lives and that their choices matter.
It is important, however, that they learn to share at times. Children at this age usually engage in solitary play or parallel play. This means that they rarely actually play with other children; rather they play parallel to other kids. You can help to model good behavior with sharing and to help your child to make the choice to share. For instance, if two kids want the same toy, you can help your child to learn to let the other kid play with it, or you can set a timer and each child will know that his turn is coming up.
Eventually, children will learn to share. When they are two or three, it can be more important for them to understand that they have their own private space and their own ability to decide what they want to play with on their own.
Posted by Toni on 30th November and posted in Play, Toys
Each child has loved at least one stuffed animal and in the course of childhood it can be a best friend. A friend to cuddle when pressures and anger are overwhelming – it’s comforting to have a friend that understands.
Stuffed animals are like unique small pets that always have a friendly smile on their face. They come in all shapes, thick or thin and their iridescent colors serve as a gift, a friend, a listener, as a comforter and who someone who understands.
The choice of stuffed animals is usually led by the eye. The variety of soft toys in a toy store offered to the viewer who is often overwhelmed, so that is no longer the price but much more about the exterior appearance.
Many manufacturers produce the sweet little animals, and sometimes it may happen that your child’s friend heads home from preschool by chance with your child’s best friend. If you want to prevent this you’ll need to give your child unique stuffed animals that are fun, at good prices – but they take a little effort, because you’ll be sewing that small stuffed animal!
And then this soft toy is guaranteed to appear only once because you’ll choose a special material, and can make the stuffed animal according to the wishes of the child.
And the nice thing is, the child may witness the birth of a new friend, and the little sprout will be so proud of his new individual stuffed animal.
They’ll have great adventures together and at night you sit together at dinner and he can tell mom and dad what has happened during the day together and how much fun we had here. In the evening he’ll take the best friend to bed and even in a dream shared adventures go on and so at breakfast there’ll be news to report at once.
Posted by Toni on 27th November and posted in Play
Children love to play with different things. Wooden toys are particularly popular. Can you remember your childhood? Didn’t you play most with toys made of wood?
Boys, for example, like to build castles out of blocks which are made of wood. Girls like to build a house for their dolls. As a parent or grandparent, you should be careful when buying a wooden toy that the toy is not painted with toxic paint. The best plan is to choose unfinished natural toys. As a rule, familes can keep playing with toys made of wood for generations, unlike plastic toys. However, this quality comes with a price – It’s not uncommon for simple wooden toys to require you to put some pretty serious cash on the table. But the price is justified, because after all this toy lasts forever and can later be shared with other children.
For small children, a train or marble track made from wood is great fun. There are some good tracks that can be individually built together and can be continuously expanded. Just making these tracks is very popular among children of preschool age. This toy not only fosters the creativity and motor skills of the child but will also encourage co-existence – the play in the nursery with other children is ideal.
For children who attend elementary school, simple blocks or modular systems make sense. With these children can build personal creations that are beautifully complemented with other toys.
Posted by Toni on 25th November and posted in Play
Since ancient times toys have been used by children around the world. Each toy has the child playing a certain role. With one toy the child loves to play – another toy is rather forgotten in a corner.
Toys can be classified into different categories. Primarily, they are adapted to a certain age. A distinction is made among other things, baby toys, educational toys, dolls and stuffed animals, sight & sound toys. A further distinction is games that are played in a community like board games. There are also adult toys, which are usually not suitable for children.
In general, toys also will be aimed at a specific gender. So it is very common that girls tend to play with dolls and stuffed animals and boys are more concerned with cars and tools. The toy industry has recognized this situation quickly and bring ever-newer toys for boys or girls on the market. The product range is constantly being expanded and deepened.
In addition to the playful sense of the toy is the purpose of learning and understanding. For example, a baby learns from certain toys that there are different shapes, colors and materials. Even for kindergarten and preschool children there are special educational toys. With animal noises, for example, sounds can be assigned to a particular animal or with simple images, the child learns to count.
Situations from everyday life can also be modeled with appropriate toys. For example, a girl discovers at an early stage when the baby doll cries and cries and calls for the bottle. Or with a special construction toy boys can reenact a situation from the road, letting his imagination run wild.
Posted by Toni on 6th October and posted in Thoughts
Hi, I’m Toni and I’ve decided to start blogging as a way to put my thoughts in order. I’m thinking very seriously about starting a small in-home preschool and I know that this is a pretty big undertaking. Lots of details to take care of, and lots of decisions that have to be made.
I’ve worked with kids on & off for years, and of course I consider myself an expert since my own children seem to have turned out pretty good (though I say so myself)! I’m really tired of office and retail work, which is how I’ve been spending my time until recently, so I’m looking forward to a job where I can sit on the floor and play with blocks when I want to!
It’s going to be a slow process setting up this new business, and so I’m allowing myself at least a year to really think through what I want to do with a preschool … and why. You can expect to see quite a few posts over the next few months as I work out the kinks.